I just heard someone utter on TV: "I'm being as honest with you as I can."
What does that mean?
Is this phrase implying that there are levels of honesty? Am I naive, or stupid, for thinking there is only one level of honesty? Is it too "old school" to think one should be 100% honest, 100% of the time? How does such a phrase like this enter the common lexicon?
I can't remember where I first heard this, but the difference between a lie and the truth is that a lie must be invented. And as an invention, a lie, once uttered, must be maintained, explained, expounded, and most critically, remembered by its author. It takes on a life of its own, in this respect, and burdens its author with all sorts of drama and foolishness for as long as it is unexposed.
If a lie is allowed to perpetuate, it will bring with it a mental liability that will crowd out more productive energy from its author's brain, and literally weigh him/her down over time. The energy it takes to persuade others of a lie requires a lot more time and effort than it takes to recall the truth. In this way, liars live with unnecessary complications. A lie makes life hard on its author. A lie is a low road leading to a dead end.
In contrast, to live with the truth, in all things, is to live with freedom. A truthful person is burdened with nothing more than his/her memory, and must only trust his/her recollection of events to lead the way. This freedom from fiction allows a person to walk through life with a light step and a restful sleep.
The truth is to be shared, not walled off. The truth is a high, open road that always rewards its travelers with beautiful vistas and relaxing destinations. The value of truth cannot be measured-- not with time, and not with money. The truth endows its keeper with a clear conscience and a sound credibility, which are precious ingredients to success in this life. The truth makes for an infinitely happier existence.
Be in love with the truth. Keep it as a close and reliable friend. It will simplify everything for you in the long run.
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